From the desk of Kelsey Buell,
Your mindset is a powerful tool. Let me tell you a quick story…
One time I bought a car online.
It was a white Porsche Cayenne with caramel interior.
She. Was. Beautiful.
And she was also a very good deal. For a reason…
After the car had been delivered to our driveway, we took it to an autobody shop to get a full look over.
We wanted to be sure it was good to drive and fully functional.
After dropping it off for a few hours, the auto mechanic called. “I wouldn’t let my mom or my girlfriend drive this car. The transfer case is off and it looks like someone tried to paint the side of the car with cheap paint.”
My heart sunk.
Needless to say, we returned the car. It was going to be a lot more expensive to keep with all of it’s issues than it was to return.
I was so incredibly disappointed.
I was hoping I could just return the car and just forget about it, but instead, what do you think happened next?
I began to see white porsche cayennes EVERYWHERE.
Every. Single. time….I went out to drive around, I began to see them.
It wasn’t until I got a different car that I really enjoyed that I was able to stop obsessing over the porsches I was seeing.
What’s the moral of the story?
What you focus on determines your reality.
What you think about, you bring about…
We can train our brains what to focus on.
There’s this thing called the reticular activating system in our brain that is pre-programmed to keep us safe.
This means it’s programmed to notice the things we train it to notice.
It wasn’t until I replaced my thoughts about a new car, that I began to be more positive about the situation.
How can you work towards replacing your negative thoughts with more positive ones?
Replacing negative thoughts with positive thoughts can be challenging, but with practice and persistence, it is possible to cultivate a more optimistic and constructive mindset. Here are some tips to help you with this process:
Remember that replacing negative thoughts with positive ones is a skill that can be developed over time. Consistent practice and a willingness to challenge your thinking will gradually lead to a more optimistic and resilient mindset.
What does the Bible say about staying positive?
The Bible encourages believers to cultivate a positive and hopeful outlook on life. These teachings emphasize trust in God, gratitude, love, and a focus on positive virtues. Here are some Bible verses that highlight the importance of having a positive attitude:
These verses emphasize the importance of focusing on positive, uplifting thoughts, being grateful, trusting in God’s goodness, and maintaining a joyful and hopeful attitude. A positive attitude, rooted in faith and love, can help believers navigate challenges, find strength in difficult times, and live a life that reflects God’s teachings.
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